22 Oct, 2018 | 11 Safar, 1440 AH

Marriage & Divorce

December 27, 2017

Aoa.apsey question pucha tha gussay mn shohar ney ghar sey nikala us baray mn.. Apney kaha k unki niyyat puchun.. Tu unhun ney kaha hey k talaaq ki niyyat nahi thy. Aur ye waqya jul 2017 ka hey.. Tb sey mn abi tk alag reh rahy hun. Q k meray shohar ki jbsey gair shari peer se bayat tooty hey wo tbsey bhht sey logon ko apney khilaaf smjhtay hen..aur kehtay hen k ap k saath raha tu mera baaqy noor b khatam hojayga.. Aur ap meray andar bolty hu.. Aur mje khwab mn ye btaya gya hey.. Aur mje mera aik dost nazar aya( jo k aur kisy ko nazar nahi aata) usney mje koy story sunaye jiski waja sey mn ney apko ghar sey nikalnay ko kaha..q k aap k sath rehta tu mera noor aur kam hojata.. Aur b bhht sey log hen jinsey meray shohar dartay hen aur same yehy baat kehtay hen.. Maslan apney baap k sath nahi rehtay isi waja sey k wo noor khinch lengay. Aur agr koy buzurg hamdardi krey un k saath tu us ko b yehy smjhtay hen k ye mera noor khincheyga. 2 saal hogye hen jb sey peer sey unka talluq toota hey..tb se aisy baaten krrhay hen.. Kabi drawnay khwab dekhtay hen..kabi apney aap ko dunya ka sb sey gunahgar insan dekhtay hen.. Un k peer ney bayat tornay sey pehlay kaha tha meray shohar sey k tmhary toba qabool nahi hogy kabi b q k tmhary file pe muhar(stamp) lag gye he..k tmhen bachpan sey gunah gar insan bnaya gya hey aur aakhir tk yehy hoga.. Bs is baat k baad sey meray shohar rotay hen aur aisy cheezen dekhtay hen..jo hmen nazar nahi aaty. Unhen maafi ka yaqeen dila dila k sb thak gye hen.. Lekin q k wo apney peer ko Allah ka bhht qareebi dost smjhtay thay tu isliay ab tk kisy ki baat pe yaqeen nhi krparhay k toba hogye hey.aur normal b nhi horahay. Lekin nmazen masjid mn parhna shuru ki hen..aur deeni aitbaar sey kaafi behtar huay hen pehlay k muqablay mn.. Lekin depression mn hen 2 yrs sey tu isliay aisy cheezen dekhtay hen aur bhht sey logon sey dartay hen.?

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